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Author:  gambit14 [ Tue May 29, 2012 12:11 am ]
Post subject:  Asking a girl out over facebook. Creepy or is it okay?

I sent a message to a girl over fb. Just saying "hey". she replied with "hey whats up". i knew her from high school. But never really got to know her personally. I wanna ask her out on a date but dont want to look weird because im asking over facebook. I was thinking of saying something like this. " Hey whats your schedule look like this week, wanna get a drink or a bite sometime?" your thoughts please...

Author:  gambit14 [ Tue May 29, 2012 12:12 am ]
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Ps. Reason im asking over facebook is because i dont have her number.

Author:  0uch [ Tue May 29, 2012 1:20 am ]
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Never ask her out using messenger. Get the number first, then over text or phone.

Also, you can host an event and send her an invite to it.

Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Tue May 29, 2012 12:22 pm ]
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Get her number.

If you can't get that - how do you expect to date?

RR

Author:  Silverlion [ Tue May 29, 2012 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Asking a girl out over facebook. Creepy or is it okay?

I've seen it happen from the side of the girl (I was staying over at a female friend of mine) and it was super creepy.

Author:  Nym [ Tue May 29, 2012 7:00 pm ]
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Do you have a mutual friend? Invite to an event with the mutual friend so she feels less threatened.

Author:  gambit14 [ Thu May 31, 2012 7:23 am ]
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i do have a'lot of mutual friends with her. didnt end up getting back to her. i just feel facebook is not the place to try ask for numbers and meeting up. I really appreciate the idea's and the thoughts on this. Its on to the next one for me!

Author:  Straggs [ Thu May 31, 2012 7:33 am ]
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If I was in this situation, I would say something like It's been a while since we talked, blah blah blah . . . we should catch up sometime then see what she says. If you two have been talkin a while and she feels comfortable she'll probably say yes, and then its a simple number close great, we should exchange numbers so its easier to keep in touch

Then start textin her, remember to keep the texts strictly on a one-for-one basis, nothing more annoying than some guy texting you 4 or 5 times without your reply :?

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