Hey guys, I am new to this forum and so I will introduce myself by asking an advice ....
I am 20 years old and came across PUA a few months ago reading mystery method, the game and a few techniques of ross jeffries but I just started to practice it ....
So let's start the story ... I know this girl for a long time but only at the level hy , a month ago I meet her in different circumstances, and we got along really well, i could talk with her about anything , and it was really fun spending time with her, this happened only for 4 days and then i had to leave back home, in a different city.
A few days ago she had something to do in my town for 3 days, so she stayed at my place because she didn't know anyone else here ... So basically we ended up spending 3 days togheter all the time and she sleep in the same bed with me.... I DHV , neged, kino, escalate and besides all this we really got along amazing as friends ... and I decided to tell her that I like her, and I told her that usually I'm not telling a girl that I like , usually I just kiss her, but with her it was something different and I consider her very special and this is why I decided to say this instead of kissing directly .......
We talk a lot about this, basically what I understand from her after our conversation is that she isn't ready to have a boyfriend because it happened all kind of bad thing with guys and she just can't open her heart to a guy, and we get so well as friends, and she wouldn't want to destroy this ... my guess is that she is really to afraid to open to a guy and this is why she didn't feel anything for me although I believe I did almost anything possible ... is this true? or she just sees me as a friend and she doesn't want to tell me directly that ...
She also said that to be in a relantionship with me we need to spend a lot of time togheter at least at the beggining because we leave in different cities....
I agreed her and after the conversation I continued to escalate, I kiss her on the cheek, on the neek, puting my hands on her shoulder, playing with her hair .... she always tryied to avoid all this, i mean she was always pulling herself out but she didn't say anything like stop, don't do that , we are just friends, it was just that her reaction was to pull herself from that situation .... my question is : does she really can't see me more than her friend or it's just that she is to scared of a relationship, and of having feelings for someone ?
Also she told me that she is missing that part of body that makes her have feeling for other guys, she can be just friends with them .... also another annoying thing is that she is really friendly with everyone and she gets along with everyone like she gets along with me, and don't know if our relantionship is special for her or just the same .....
Ok , sorry for the long post .... maybe you can share your feelings with me about this and what should I do? should I tried to push her? and if so how to do that?
