I'll just throw it in this topic:
- I'm danish, so i apologize in advance
.So, tonight i'm going to a birthday party, and i'd really like your guys' ideas and thoughts of the entire situation.
See, my target and I are a bit randomly both going to be there, and here's what have already happened (I will try to keep it short, please hang on):
2 Weeks ago I and two friends went to a local bar a bit away from the city,
'cause a couple of our friends were going there after a promparty on their school.
We met our friends and I got introduced for this girl. She was sitting with her friend (who my friend were gonna kiss with that night) not as pretty as she is(she's a 9), and they're both 18 and me and my friend are 19.
Talked alot about random usual not-interesting stuff and then she went for the dancefloor with her friend. I took time to evaluate with my friend.
- First question: What would you do in this situation? - We went to the bar, so that we did not sit back and wait for them (ofcourse).
The next hour we did not speak, since she had not returned >to me< and she was kinda the one leaving, and suddenly she spoke to a random guy.
- Second question: Would you - and how, approach her again? - I did, fortunately, cause she seemed all relieved since the other guy had a crush on
one of her friends and he was annoying her - so it's not always what it seems like. But the conversation kinda took a turn, and she offered alot to the conversation unlike before.
(I should almost concider him as a wingman, cause then we could laugh at his stupity together)
Whatever, night was over and she came to hug me and say goodbye (Don't know if i should've taken more action), then i asked how we could continue the conversation and she gave me her number.
- Third question: What do you prefer, giving or recieving number - and how?
For the next days we were just chatting, and I got her loosened up abit by playing cold so she would actually respond with questions.
We found out, that we were both going to the city friday night and we agreed on keeping in contact about where we were gonna party.
So the night went on, and pretty early she contacted me asking where i was gonna hang out. It seemed like she really wanted me to come to the
disco where she were with her friends. I discussed this with one of my girl friends who told me that i should not go cause i seemed all desperate by me
- but i was like, >she seems to want me to come at her place and i had only met her once before so why not just give it a shot, i don't really care if it was gonna blow up