Hello,
My name is Hans. I'm a 19 year old guy, living in Belgium. Because most of the English speaking peoples can't pronounce my name, and I'm in law school, I'll be posting under the name Nomos (God of Law).
Most of you probably know 'The Game' by Neil Strauss. This book really opened my eyes on how easy it actually is to pick up women. Since a month or so I've been reading the Game and started practicing according to what this amazing book told me. My first party I went to, while using my newly acquired techniques, I ended up in bed with a red haired girl (a 7, due to the lack of boobs). The second party (2 days ago), I ended up in bed with 2 girls at once (a 7, same reason, and a 9, damn). Before these 'achievements', I had some girlfriends, but only one relationship got really serious, doing (almost) everything, except going all the way. After the relationship, I tried friends with benefits, which turned out horrible, since I was barely getting any, but still had to listen to all the whining and complaining.
From what I've experienced (not a lot though), negging and paying attention to the girls you don't want in your bed, are the way to go. With gentle, subtle touches and push-pulling the girl you do want, I succeeded twice now out of 2 times of going out (or 3 times, if you count 2 for the threesome
). When I go to parties, I try dressing up, usually wearing a nice, shiny shirt which draws the attention (I notice, because heads keep turning my way) (a conversation piece, according to the book) and try smiling as much as possible, being as alpha as possible! This was something I already did before reading the book, but without the tips, nothing would've worked out the way it did now... My hobby and my passion are martial arts. I've been practicing Karate, Taekwondo and Muay Thai since I was 10. I'm like 1m87 tall and because of working out to up to 4 times a week, my body is in quite good shape. This is one of my major plusses I believe.
Since I'm in University right now, and have broken up with my girlfriend a couple of months ago, I want to enjoy being single for as long and as much as I can.
There's one thing I really really really need to learn. This is why I came her in the first place. As I said earlier in this post, I was 'successful' twice. The problem is, those girls don't seem to know how to let go, and I don't know how I can gently make clear that it was just that one night and that I'm not looking for a relationship in any way. Also the girl I mentioned (from the fwb thing) wants to be like 'exclusive'. I have no idea what I have to do, because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.. If you guys have some tips on how I have to tell them and how to avoid those situations in the future, please help me out.
I'm very excited that I joined the community and I'm sure I'm going to be active on these forums from now on. Also, thanks in advance for all the tips and tricks I'm going to learn here. I look forward to being here!