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Author:  CanadianArab [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 4:38 am ]
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I'm a good looking college dude looking for a change. I'd say my game is alright, I still get AA however I'm starting to live a more social life, talking to random people and such. Sometimes if the girl is boring I'll have moments where I won't know what to talk about, but usually doesn't happen anymore.

Basically I'm a 19 yr old virgin, wanted to keep my virginity till marriage but after my last girlfriend broke up with me, I don't care anymore. It's starting to actually be annoying to be a virgin, seeing as I'm a really good looking, the girls I've told I'm a virgin didn't believe me at first.

The only thing I'm worried about is, is im a sophomore in college and i haven't had sex yet. Most dudes my age aren't virgins anymore. I feel like when I tell a girl I'm a virgin, they assume something is wrong with me thinking why is this guy still a virgin something has to be wrong. I've also had several girls treat me different after telling them that, so I've learned to not tell girls that.
Anyways I want to become a PUA, where should I start? And are there any of these books/videos that are HIGHLY recommended ?
Author:  Invincible Virgin [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 5:34 am ]
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I'm going to link you to another post I had a ways back on just starting out. Im in college as well and tho I am far from a PUA... but I'm no AFC either.

Specifically for you though being a virgin shouldn't matter but how you have said this in the past may be what is having girl see you another way.

I'm a virgin and it's something I'm fine with myself about because it's my choice. Ya I mean girls are disappointed--blue walled (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.p ... ue%20walls)

but AS LONG AS YOU AREN'T ASHAMED OR EMBARRASSED, often it poses a challenge for them... and we all know girls love a challenge ;)

"I bet you both won't make out with me right now..."

"Yep--- that's what I figure-- too afraid to go skinny dipping with me right now"

Etc etc...

Always remember with great power comes great responsibility:

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Author:  Theodiscus [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 5:42 am ]
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I knew a guy who was a total man whore and finally decided to declare abstinence. Due to this, when a girl found out, they were instantly attracted to him more than before. I think playing the "I was waiting for marriage at first, but now I am just waiting for that right connection" (or something like that) and not being ashamed of your virginity can be a great card to play.

As for waiting for marriage, it is a noble idea, but the world is different today and that trait is somewhat outdated and only held by strongly religious people. Just don't be a whore.
Author:  CanadianArab [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 6:02 am ]
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I've gotten mixed reactions on wether to tell the girl I'm a virgin or not, I don't know which route to take lol. And I read your post, I just dont know what to read next, theres way too much info on here.
Author:  Invincible Virgin [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 6:19 am ]
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I've gotten mixed reactions on wether to tell the girl I'm a virgin or not, I don't know which route to take lol. And I read your post, I just dont know what to read next, theres way too much info on here.
I'll tell you what. It might be you get mixed reactions--fine.

Anyone asking you this question is very involved with you in some way so for now I'd focus on things that come before this point bc quite honestly a girl has probably decided whether or not she will sleep with you subconsciously before she asks you if you're a virgin.

1. Inner game

2. Developing your own sense of who you are and what you stand for

3. Outwardly displaying that style in dress, learning about body language, learning about kino.

There are people who have sex with women who they don't even speak their language. If that's what you really want, it is possible to do without letting them know you're a virgin.
Author:  CanadianArab [ Sun Mar 18, 2012 7:36 pm ]
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The problem is I've gotten to the point where I don't know anymore. At one point, I'll want it to be a girl I'm dating, and at a another I just want to get it over with. I can't decide on one, and living at home with arab parents makes it hard cuz I obviously can't bring a girl home, and I can't spend the night at a girls house :(
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