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| Author: | Alex Steelheart [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 5:17 am ] |
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Hi guys! I´m new an entire newbie in this field, I study psychology at the second grade with 50 girls and 6 other guys in the class. Even though I have good looks and consider myself being funny, my sexual life is null and void, literally. Most of my time I´m busy with other things, like study or learning German language. It may sound weird when me speaking as an entire newbie, but I have found myself familiar with thoughts of learning indirect hypnosis, covert hypnosis and NLP anchors, To be honest my money situation isn´t good at all right now so I will have to save up for Ledochowski´s program and leave it until later. I have already read through one book " introduction to NLP" but I know that it requires a lot of practice to do NLP not just only reading. Seems like all those seduction hypnotic techniques are derived from Ericksson, or am I mistaken? I know that many of you could be now saying that I need basics, but if I feel familiar with hypnosis while seducing what is bad about it? Also I´m looking for long term relationship, but even if I´m after it I still need great stuff on seduction and tons of quality information to get the girl I really want. Now I lately discovered Fractination by Derek Rake and his Sonic Seduction, I need a serious advice about whether he does his job good or he copies the stuff of others. Can someone tell me? Thanks for response, I´m little afraid of breaking forum rules, which I´m unaware of, posting this post, just if you are an admin, who is reading this post, let me know and I won´t do it again, honestly. |
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| Author: | JaySin [ Tue Feb 07, 2012 1:45 pm ] |
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In my opinion the main benefit of NLP and hypnosis in a PUA context is its ability to help relax the mind and allow it to be led, and issue commands and suggestions, as compliance to dominance, leading. I've found it is amazing how after learning some NLP I have become aware of the invisible power struggle that happens all the time in interactions, with one person issuing commands and another person complying, verbally and through body language, which is the basis of leadership. the more you can lead people, make decisions for others, be responsible for their experience and give instructions in everyday life, the easier it will be with women. In a seduction context we are leading the mind and emotions of a woman, encouraging her to permit herself to enter, indulge and enjoy a pleasurable sensual state and are sharing the experience together and associate it with you. so I am the decision maker and one giving commands, she is the one following I am the one screening her, she is the one seeking approval I am the one taking responsibility for the experience, she is allowing it to "just happen" when you have a strong frame and approach life and people from this mindset yes, you will engage in more power struggles, but you will also have more followers hehe. ask less questions eg "would you like to meet up?" (permission) issue more commands eg "i am free tuesday, you're welcome to meet me for xyz at xpm" |
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| Author: | Alex Steelheart [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 8:21 pm ] |
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Quote: I have become aware of the invisible power struggle that happens all the time in interactions, Yes this seems to me the core problem in relationship. Thanks JaySin for great feedback and brilliant explanations! |
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