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| Author: | Berrysneaky [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 8:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | New member seeking advice. |
Just curious, I am starting fresh what should be the first thing I should look at and then build from that? |
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| Author: | rakeal [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 8:44 am ] |
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I started with books. First "Mystery Method", then "the game" then I read the first half of magic bullets. You'll eventually find that natural game is the best but I do not regret learning those as a foundation. First the theory, then the experience, then work toward being more and more natural. And most of all go out and start making mistakes. Lord knows I've made millions, but the point of this site is to learn from the legwork of others. |
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| Author: | swarly [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 7:06 pm ] |
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i think you should just go out to the field and constantly use the new things you learn. yull learn much more that way |
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| Author: | rakeal [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 1:19 am ] |
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Ya, read enough to get the whole picture then work on each step piece by piece. opening, closing ect. Truth is though, for every style there is a completely contradictory style that works just as well. Direct can be just as effective as playing hard to get. The first year or so tends to be learning what NOT to do. Don't get too stuck on the negatives because in life, you tend to get exactly what you focus on. If you are too focused on getting women, you will always be getting women. Seems like a good idea but I would rather focus on having women. Then you will always have them. There are two side to the coin. Outer game... what you say and what you do. and inner game... how you think and how you feel. Inner game is far far better than any routine or tactic. I've gotten to the point where it's clicked into my head that I can walk up to a girl and say "Hi, I'm a typical loser trying to get into your pants" she will laugh and shake my hand. The point is that although I say that, it's only 10% of my communication and there fore redundant. But you almost need to learn all the routines and tactics just so you get an idea of how effective the game can be. I find that thinking to myself... "I know the game... I have an edge..." gives me the confidence to go forward and pull it off even if I don't use the game. Weird that way. You'll get it. Just start approaching and don't be afraid to approach hot women. If you've had something work on 10 average girls in a row, don't get the impression that you need to step up your gave for the hotties. Treat them the exact same. Remember they are just people. And women like men. Get it out of your head that you need to do or say something special for you to like you. Pretty much they already like you because you have a cock, they are just going to shit test you and try to put you through some hoops. Play your game not theirs. |
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