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| Author: | Dalzy [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 12:35 am ] |
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Hello, first post. Felt compelled to join the forum after a night out at the weekend, and wondered what you guys would have done in my situation. I'd say I was fairly good looking (7/8 on a good day) but can't chat up women to save my life. Was in a club with just me and my mate. Friend went out for a smoke so I was sat by myself. Girl from a group of women next to me, who was maybe a 6 or 7, says "you not like dancing?" Couldn't think of a clever response so just said "not by myself no". She then says "You know what I think you should do. You should buy me a drink." Now I clearly wasn't going to get up like a dog and go buy her one, but my best response of "I'm pretty sure it's your round" was met with a shrug, her making a face to her mates and pretty much ending any chance I had with them either. How would you have handled that situation? |
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| Author: | StarFuckerINC [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 12:48 am ] |
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Any girl that's worth dating, will dismiss you if you don't buy her a drink. She's taking that as a rejection. Also buying a girl a drink is can also be viewed as a sign that you're not just using her for sex. |
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| Author: | StarFuckerINC [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 12:48 am ] |
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Also you judge yourself as being a 7/8, but you're probably inflating yourself.. PM me a picture of yourself, and I'll give you my judgement. |
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| Author: | msqto242 [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 12:58 am ] |
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a great response i've seen used with reasonable success was something along the lines of 'only if you buy me one' with a smile. that way it doesn't come across as a rejection but you're not the pushover paying for her buzz. |
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| Author: | phoenix11 [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:07 am ] |
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I might have said something like "That depends on how well you dance.." or "May be I will, but you have to earn it. " and make a little game out of it where she dances with me first and then I buy her a drink. A little reward system. But considering I'm a noob, I would like your opinions on this. |
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