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| Author: | Scotch-Tape [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Vin DiCarlo "Objection Game" for under 20's. |
Ok so basically this is my first post, I'm new to this "game" theory thing, but I'm seriously intrigued by it. When I was reading about Vin DiCarlo's Objection Game, which is seriously good by the way, read it if you haven't, I noticed, for me anyway, that the examples that Vin gave of some of the possible ways to bypass the five main consequences that hold women back from having sex with you, were more orientated towards older women, who would value a guy who can be serious in nature. I'm not saying that younger women aren't attracted to that too, but sometimes they can be scared off by someone who is too serious! So! I'm going to share some of the examples I use with younger women (18-21). Some are Vin's example just slightly altered... as I said genius stuff. What I do is I get my serious point across, demonstrating I have I have a sensitive and serious side while also gradually breaking down the walls that are preventing her from sleeping with me but add a bit of a joke at the end to lighten the mood back up so you can flow back into natural light hearted conversation if you so wish. Ok first the 5 Consequences: 1. “I May Get an STD” 2. “I May Get Pregnant” 3. “This Guy Might Fall in Love Too Quickly and Stalk Me” 4. Social consequences “My friends / co-workers might find out and think I’m a slut” 5. “If I sleep with him early on, it may ruin the chances of a future relationship or friendship” The Examples: Objections 1 & 2: I have this friend, I mean he’s a good guy but sometimes he’s just such an idiot! He got with this girl right, fair play whatever, ya know! But then a week or so later he got a text off the girl saying she had missed her period. He starts freaking out, saying his life is over. “Aw I’ll have to get a full time job, drop out of college” Like he was getting properly depressed over this. Needless to say about 5 days later she called him saying she had got her period. Aw he was so happy. So he decided to go out and get locked to celebrate…. Of course! So he’s super hammered and at the end of the night I see him with this girl so I go up and ask him what the story is. Is he coming home with us or whatever? And he’s like “nah think I’m gonna go home with her.” So I was like “fair enough, fair play to ya.” Then just as a joke when I was leaving I was like “Hey! Stay safe this time!” Then he was like “Aww shit! I forgot a condom!” Like earlier that day he was freaking out about having a kid! You’d think he would’ve brought one out with him at least for that night! I had to feckin lend him one!..... Well I say lend…. I didn’t want it back. Hahaha! But some people eh? At some point in the interaction mention donating blood. Not only does this make you seem as though you have great values, but it also confirms that you probably do not have any STD’s. Objection 3: It’s funny, when I was younger, about 16, well up to when I was about 18 actually haha! I used to be such a hopeless romantic. I would bring girls flowers, gifts, and chocolates and take them on romantic dates… But it always seemed to go unappreciated. Women would like it, but then they would forget I did it a week later. So after a while I stopped doing it. Which is kind of unfortunate, it’s wrecked my innocence. Now I save that stuff for my mom, y’know pfft! At least she appreciates it. Objection 4: Just so you know I’m not one of those guys how goes blabbing to all his friends. I hate it when girls do that to me. You know? You open up and tell them something or do something with them that you think you can trust them with, and then suddenly the whole world knows! Or even when guys are telling me what they did last night, it’s just needless bragging. Whatever happens between me and you, it stays between me and you. You’re not a blabber mouth are you? Oh my god! You’re such a gossip aren’t you! I can see it in your eyes! Glistening with any chance of hearing a bit of juicy goss! Nah I believe you…(awkward look to side). Objection 5: You know it’s annoying, cos, ok fine, ‘some’ guys do play games with women, but somehow for some reason we all get pinned with this reputation! But then the funny thing is women play games too. Probably even more than men! For example you guys have all these rules about physical interaction that you all have to adhere to, you do! don’t lie. “Oh I won’t kiss a man until he’s taken me out on at least one date!” But I mean, it shouldn’t be like that, well at least ‘I’ don’t think anyway, (negative) I think those kind of games are a “huge” turn off. First encounters or realizations of attraction should be spontaneous, free flowing, unexpected and passionate; you should do what feels right, even if it does seem a little crazy. Cos those first few days are the best of any relationship, you’ll always remember how you meet. So they, you know, should be wild, crazy and uninhibited. Well that’s just what I think anyway; you’re probably way more conservative? “Eww I won’t sleep with any man until I’ve had my 2.4 dates!”…. Which ok fine I can understand in a world of idiot blabber mouths! Then afterward, if it doesn’t work out, all these games of “Oh I’m never going to talk to that asshole ever again!” Just because two people can’t function in a relationship together doesn’t mean they can’t be friends. Romantic relationships and friendships succeed and fail on different principles entirely. The best of friends might be the worst couple ever, doesn’t mean they can’t go back to being friends. Life too short I think! I have too much to do to be worrying about people who play games! ……. (sigh)T’haa! So, do you play any computer games? Hahaha! I hope this helps any of the young lads out there.... maybe even some of the veterans who find cocky banter a bit difficult to grasp. Any questions I'd be happy to answer.....Happy hunting! Scotch-Tape |
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| Author: | mhouser54 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 8:03 pm ] |
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Thanks for some clarification. This is a great outline! |
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| Author: | Scotch-Tape [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 8:14 pm ] |
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I'll give it a read, cheers bro. |
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