Hello every1 guys, nice to meet you all.
I'm a 23 years old guy from Tuscany - Italy.
I discovered this world back in July when a friend of mine, that unlucky lives far away from me now, entered me in PUA's World.
He trow me an Email about reading a book, that book was "the game" of neil strauss. He didnt tell me anything at the start about the book, he told me only:"Read it!".
At the start i was sceptical about this man, trascribing a biography, but soon everything changed, i got inside this book, it was amazing. I didnt think anything like this comunity could exist.
The book opened to me a new world, so i started to search for more, and i finded you, i didnt really made an account earlyer beacuse i first wanted to gather more information by reading and watching others stuff.
Now i'm trying to slowly change what i am, to what i should and want to be!
Im very tired of my life right now. Still a virgin. No GF in ages. I'm pratically a nerd in many ways. But the slow wind of change, thanks to reading and taking action is moving myself back on track.
In the past years, of school and then university, i was in a school where 90% of students were man, i was in a class of only man, so i didnt figure out anything in that age, i was just so fucking happy like it was, the girls ofc existed, i had some girls as a friends in my small town, but nothing more than that.
At the university i didnt have any luck neither, i joined a university that i really liked, and not many people would go. So we were few people, just 18 and only 3 girls there.
Another of my main problems, was that i really enjoy videogames, i used to stay in home doing nothing more than play with friends in console and online games. That exspecially cutted me out from social world and exiled me except from a close ring of friends.
So now im 23 and i've became very shy (more shy than i was) beacuse i see in girls the reward of the game, but im not really able to fight the boss to get to them SPAM (talking in funny way
).All my friends of my little town (8000people) disapperad cause of university, work and other stuff. So now im trying to go out with others people, pretty hard ...
Anyway...
As soon as my friend gave me that, i saw an option, the option that i was missing in the previous times.
So..
I first started to change my haircut, my clothes (i wasnt wearing a Shirt in years...), my moving style, my way to interact, talk, and watch people and starting to get out more.
Started then to change my mind, work out for inner game.
But still, im too shy and everytime i talk with a new girls, or a girl that i dont see in months i get nervous, and start to f**k everything up...
I was used to follow a moral that people around me were telling me: "Dont think too much about it, beacuse its gonna get there as soon as you stop thinking about it". In italian its more easy to say...
Anyway, only now i can undestand how much i was wrong. And how much time i lost, talking about girls.
As i mentioned before: my main hobbie/passion, is videogame console and PC. Im totally addict to it, slowly trying to close it...
I like mangas/comics and anime.
I enjoy watch movies and TV sitcom like how i met your mother, big bang theory, CSI, ecc...
My others hobbie, is mainly music, rock - hard rock - Heavy metal music. For my really bad luck this kind of music in italy is a disgraceful for 90% of people that i know. And since i live in a small town its really hard find some1 new for talk about it.
I enjoy sports, football, tennis, tennis table, rugby ecc.
I love cars and motos too.
Anyway.
Now i have to get everything work! I have some girls in my mind that are the goals to reach, i dont really want be able to fuck 24/7 every girl around or be able to get out with the 80% of girls out there, i just want to get out of this limbo where im stuck, and be able to reach my goals.
I mainly want a GF, to stop feel that loliness when i think about girls.
So with MY WORK, the skills of the gurus and masters, and your preciousus and incomparable helpfull advices, i will reach my goals!
Hope someday to be able to help some1 too.
Thanks every for let me in this comunity.
Cheers and see you.