Stealth Attraction is a pretty smooth way of playing the
game as it makes you seem more natural, I've seen
Gamblers stuff but it doesn't really appeal to me...
Trust me man that I know what you mean
when you say that you know you didn't
try hard enough for not approaching,
I've been in that spot where you
want to approach but you
become so overwhelmed
that your head gets in
the way because of
thinking what to
say and how will
she react? It's a shitty feeling man
but don't worry about it too much
you'll get over it sooner than
you think if you're willing
you break free of your
comfort zone and just
push yourself too see
those results you
desire.
To get over your AA you need to keep exposing
yourself to women and approach them as much as
you can, and also go out as often as you can so you
can get into the mindset of doing a spontaneous outing
and have the intention of approaching women. Daygame and
nightgame aren't so different from one another... The DG pace is
slower and more relaxed and NG is faster and more energetic. It's
how you adapt and calibrate yourself to those 2 settings which makes
it that much easier be good at.
If you want to get over your AA, the fastest way is to go to a busy mall (that's
a good place, you can even go out onto the city street and try there, but
first do a scout on some days before doing approaches to see how busy
it gets on specific days so you don't waste your time...)
and approach every attractive girl you see, she doesn't even have
to be that attractive like a fucking 10, she can just be pretty on what your
personal standards are. They say that the best practice is on old people
but I find that way too easy and...tacky. You can even approach guys
it doesn't mattter (the preference is girls) it's just so you can
get comfortable approaching people.
Now, i'm not
talking about going full steam and trying to number close everytime
on your first try. First focus on getting comfortable approaching
and speaking to an attractive girl and move on from there. I
have been using a simple opener "Excuse me sorry to bother
you, do you know where the M&B (coffee shop) is?" That's all
it is to it. You don't even care about the answer or what
happens after that, once you can become congruent
with approaching then you can transition the conversation
from there. I did a live approach last week and uploaded
it to my blog, check it out here to see how easy
approaching can be just by using
using that simple opener  ----> [livechai.blogspot.com]
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It's too easy to forgive myself for not meeting my own goals but I think by reporting here with progress I'm more likely to try.