Hey guys, I am new to the forums. Interested in finding out techniques other guys use that are successful for picking up women in social/ sometimes drunk situations.

I am a college student, electrical engineering major. I put effort into what I wear so I am often compliments on what I wear. (mostly by my friends and their moms/sisters). I work at a bank and always figured I was confident, but lurking through this forum has made me realize I am really not. Most of the time when I meet a girl that I feel is attractive and she likes me I feel "lucky".

In high school I was very insecure and shy. I feel like I live in my head and my thoughts during social situations where I want to Talk To A Girl instead of actually putting actions to my thoughts.

One huge thing I lack, is I suck at eye contact. when my eyes meet a girls from across the room I instantly look away, when I don't I feel like a "creeper".

I am going to a party at a friends college tonight. The guy is known for ALWAYS having gorgeous women around him. He is usually in the "Friend Zone" though.

Can anyone give me some ideas on things I can workout today before I go to the party??