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Author:  boobie23 [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  she asks to borrow money...
so this chick ive know for 8 years me and her were talkin at one poin to try and get together but that really didnt work. But she has just texted me to ask if she can borrow 10 bucks to get on the train. Not sure if i should give it to her i sorta want her to earn it cuz i dont just give away money if i work for mine. what would you all say and do?
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she asks to borrow money...
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so this chick ive know for 8 years me and her were talkin at one poin to try and get together but that really didnt work. But she has just texted me to ask if she can borrow 10 bucks to get on the train. Not sure if i should give it to her i sorta want her to earn it cuz i dont just give away money if i work for mine. what would you all say and do?
I'd say "Sure" and give her the money. It's 10 bucks man, and you've known her for a long time. At this point is not about looking cool (making her earn it) it's about avoiding looking cheap. That money won't make you rich ;).

Give her the money without expectations. Make it a one-time deal, and keep working things out with her.
Author:  boobie23 [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 11:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she asks to borrow money...
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so this chick ive know for 8 years me and her were talkin at one poin to try and get together but that really didnt work. But she has just texted me to ask if she can borrow 10 bucks to get on the train. Not sure if i should give it to her i sorta want her to earn it cuz i dont just give away money if i work for mine. what would you all say and do?
I'd say "Sure" and give her the money. It's 10 bucks man, and you've known her for a long time. At this point is not about looking cool (making her earn it) it's about avoiding looking cheap. That money won't make you rich ;).

Give her the money without expectations. Make it a one-time deal, and keep working things out with her.
but thing is like we always argued right and she sayin she wants to focus on herself before gettin into a relationship but like while we got into it shes been talkin to this other guy but they dont see each other much and she still has sex with me rofl but i kinda wanna be with her like she knows everything bout me and i know everything bout her....do you think me and her are better off as just friends or....
Author:  bansario [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 12:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: she asks to borrow money...
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so this chick ive know for 8 years me and her were talkin at one poin to try and get together but that really didnt work. But she has just texted me to ask if she can borrow 10 bucks to get on the train. Not sure if i should give it to her i sorta want her to earn it cuz i dont just give away money if i work for mine. what would you all say and do?
I'd say "Sure" and give her the money. It's 10 bucks man, and you've known her for a long time. At this point is not about looking cool (making her earn it) it's about avoiding looking cheap. That money won't make you rich ;).

Give her the money without expectations. Make it a one-time deal, and keep working things out with her.
but thing is like we always argued right and she sayin she wants to focus on herself before gettin into a relationship but like while we got into it shes been talkin to this other guy but they dont see each other much and she still has sex with me rofl but i kinda wanna be with her like she knows everything bout me and i know everything bout her....do you think me and her are better off as just friends or....
I feel we're getting a bit off-topic. Your question was about money, so that's answered (in my humble opinion). Now you want to know whether you should be friends or not with her.

That's really your decision, and only you know what the two of you are going through. Apparently, she's not exclusive with you (considering there's another guy), so I don't know how you feel about that.

Also, you're showing signs of emotional interest in this person, who makes me believe you either love her or you are totally frustrated with her (or both).

I think you should structure your question a bit better so we can understand what the problem is. Give some details on your relationship with her, and maybe we can help.

By the way, are you very young? (just out of curiosity).
Author:  Nehoc [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 1:39 am ]
Post subject:  Durr...
If she's a friend and of course give her the $10..that's what friends do
Author:  Kieran Black [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 1:40 am ]
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I agree, give her the money.

No-one likes a tightarse. Although if I were you I would jokingly say something along the lines of ...

'so, I've got this garden that really needs a good weeding'

Just to show her you're no pushover, then I would tell her I was only kidding and laugh it off.
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