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Author:  Sensasian [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 6:25 am ]
Post subject:  New member + Urgent question
What's up guys?

As mentioned in thread title: new member + urgent question.

I'll share some of my personal experience (successes and fails, I am not afraid to be honest) in another thread at a later time, but for now, I'd like some assistance.

I recently got into this because I was trying to get my mind off someone else.

Anyway, I haven't had problems talking to women or getting their numbers, but I am rather inexperienced in the first call ~ second date.

I met a 10 while she was working on Saturday night (around 9:30pm or so).

Our interaction went something like this:

Me: Are you Russian?
Her: No, I am from Pennsylvania, but same thing right? hahaha
Me: haha yeah

*I got my order, left with my buddy to finish it, then I went back into the store*

Me: Hey I didn't catch your name
Her: *name*
Me: I am *name*, nice to meet you
Me: How old are you?
Her: How old do I look?
Me: I dunno
Her: Guess
Me: 22?
Her: nope.
Me: younger or older?
Her: older
Me: 23...24...?
Her: 25.
Me: Can I take you out?
Her: Maybe, I'll think about it.
Me: Heh. Can I have your number?
Her: Yes xxx-xxxx
Me: haha, this is real right?
Her: Yeah. I'd prove it to you, but I can't take out my phone during work.


I called her Tuesday night at 8pm. No answer. But I figured she's likely working, so I called at 10:30pm. No answer.

So my question is, what do I do now?

Btw, I am 20.
Author:  Kit-Kat [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:12 am ]
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honestly i would say it is a lost cause and for future reference... don't call her twice in one night.... it just makes u look needy and as soon as you appear needy you practically loose all hope in getting anywhere with the girl. but a valuable lesson can be learned from this, you always want to appear as if you could do with out her... but you would be willing to give her a shot if she put a little effort in.... the more you study the art of pick up the more this simple concept will make sense to you... good luck.

Kit-Kat
Author:  GeorgePH [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:48 am ]
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She's not interested. You can call or text again a couple of days later, but my advice for you is to practice, practice, practice.
Author:  Sensasian [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 6:52 pm ]
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Thanks guys!

Btw, she doesn't know that number is mine.

For future reference, should I text instead of call?

I only ask because I never "exchange" phone numbers, I just get theirs and leave.

But I know some people don't answer numbers they don't recognize.

Anyway, let me know what you guys think from your experience.
Author:  GeorgePH [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 6:55 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks guys!

Btw, she doesn't know that number is mine.

For future reference, should I text instead of call?

I only ask because I never "exchange" phone numbers, I just get theirs and leave.

But I know some people don't answer numbers they don't recognize.

Anyway, let me know what you guys think from your experience.
Oh, I hadn't realized. In that case, I would wait a day or two, text her something like:

"Hey, it's George! You know, the super awesome guy you gave your number to on Monday. This is my number; I'll call you when I get back home!"

And then call.
Author:  Sensasian [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:25 pm ]
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Ahh, I guess the details really matter.

This is why I hate communicating through text/writing.

I am pretty sure the conversation I listed in the OP looks bland as fuck too lol.

Thanks for the tip George.

How about something like: "I am pretty sure phones are meant to be answered. Or do girls from Pennsylvania do things differently? :P"

She'll most likely ask "Who's this???"

And then I'll go with what you said: "Hey, it's George! You know, the super awesome guy you gave your number to on Monday. This is my number; I'll call you when I get back home!"
Author:  GeorgePH [ Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:28 pm ]
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Good luck and let us know how it goes :)
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