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K i will explain the process is field tested by me, but i saw some similarities in the movie the ugly truth:
1.- The girls knows you, and you talk to her about the relationship and encourage her to stay...Reverse psychology, or whatever...
2.- you are a real friend that brings her up and makes her better...
3.- you are honest, and take they guy side, when he is right, and if he is wrong you point out how you would have handle it.
4.- you talk to her about the girls you are seeing, how you hooked up etc...pua shit, SHOW THAT YOU are valuable and wanted, in demand, not bragging though, just talking as friends...
5.- you have to be sending by doing all this steps, messages to her brain that you are the right guy(i don't know if this came out right) but subliminal shit...
6.- when you get an opening(hopefully enough attraction build in you jump in)
Please watch the movie the "ugly truth" , then come and talk....The movie came out, after i have done similar things, so again, i know is just a movie but that is a good portrait of shit i have been doing...
Man, been so busy haven't had a chance to check back.
360- again I have to say that the fact this works for you does not make it something that will work for everyone. Just because you have honed your own style to work with this approach just means that you are properly implementing many other successful techniques and you found an area you excell in.
Granted there are many aspects of SMT in your description, but I can tell you that I know a lot of AFC that do loosely what you are describing without success. Honestly, I think that because you view it as a back door, you are dropping your own hangups and hitting it 100% because you have confidence BS has already been dropped. If that extra psychology boost gives you the edge to push harder and you succeed, than hi-5.
Regardless, SMT is a solid approach to start with. I do think as posted earlier that the second piece is key to consistent success for the average AFC trying to use it.
In other news, was in TO this week visiting a friend. SMT for the win!