Have you tried working on your non verbals? Things like learning to use your smile and eye contact when talking, emphasizing points and jokes with touch in flirty suggestive non invasive ways.
If you don't have interesting hobbies or are not a strong conversationalist, why don't you simply attempt to apply yourself in creating a strength to support your weakness, try to do more with less talking and put the pressure on the girl to contribute and hold court, listen to her (actually listen, don't just wait for her to stop talking so you can talk about yourself, connect with her on what she says), validate her when she gives good feedback.
You may find after a while if you practice this instead of worrying about what to say, all you have to do is find a girl who is into you and you can both sit there and say relatively nothing, as long as you're comfortable with silence and just being around someone who you like and it's understood the feeling of validation is mutual then you don't really need to be talking and filling the dead air at all times. That security with the silence gives you a great tool, you can find comfort in the sexual tension and ramp it up a bit to watch the girl get nervous and scramble to fill the dead air to qualify her self, instead of getting nervous and trying to do it yourself. Just stay as cool and relaxed as you possibly can, be clear on what your intentions are and just consider it a matter of time, fish for things you like about her, let her know when you find them, be warm but also willing to walk away and most of all, give her a chance to talk and LISTEN to what she says and use it.
When you try to be high energy it leads to a frantic antagonistic pace where you're in a state of constantly needing to come up with something witty/interesting or busting balls back and fourth, this is stimulating and fun, it also makes it easier to open because people like that boost, but typically rapport and seduction won't happen when your energy is at a 10, you gotta slow it down, cool off a bit, stop trying to be funny or interesting and just relax and let the girl try to do that. Seduction happens when you can both relax and get close to each other and find a way to connect and trust, stop trying to find a way to impress, it's needy, instead find a way to be impressed and willing to give permission and direction for why you two can move forward as a result of you being impressed.
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