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So ive been out of online sarging for a time but recently started it again. N as i did ive felt this sort of pattern.
1. The openers which i found on
PUA forums (the cocky funny type) didnt get me any responce at all. Ive tried it in the past n tried it again. As en e.g take this "Hi. You look Stunning!.....I Have to be straight with you, I was Paid to say that......But I would have said it for free because I don't like lying
"
Openers like these never worked for me n the reason i can think of is tht the gal finds it cheesy/cocky n a player type vibe.
2. So then i gave a try on
neutral openers. like asking something about her profile picture. Heres the most recent one. This gal had a cover pic wid her frnds n they were celebrating some "Suits" day (all wearing black coats).
ME: Really like ur theme in ur cover. Never seen this one before. Were u celebrating some Michael Jackson or Lawyers day ??
HER: Ehh.. What's so new about suits?
ME: Well ive seen cultutal day, vampire day etc. Basically every other day other than this Suits day.
Also u luk more like Michael Jackson rather than a gentleman in a suit. I can bet u can dance as gud as him too ??
No reply after that.
Ive tried similar openers couple of times. In some cases the conversation went on for a few days but the gal wont open up.
So simple question: Cocky doesnt open. Neutral dont escalate. Which one to go with ??
NOTE: I m an Asian trying on Muslim gals in a Muslim community. Tried on FB n some dating apps too like Badoo.
Uptill now ive tried on 9 gals.6 didnt read the msg. 1 read the msg but didnt reply. 2 replied but conversation cudnt escalate. Now it may b too early to judge or i may b fucking up really bad but i wud really appreciate some Constructive Advice rather than Blind criticism (though i dun mind if u thnk thts the only way to advice
)
I live in the same community and let me tell you, it's as he says it is. You can't know it until u have lived it.
It's that bad here. Its like this, due to conservative society that I happen to live in. Both us boys and girls are taught to suppress our emotions and deny them, in simple words its like this :
In your society, see those guys raised in a catholic home? Yeah its like that, and its ten times, scratch that, it's hundred times worse. And you think we are just some typical chodes, but you don't know the guys and girls. But Pickup is done, I have done it to some extent, but when it comes to hooking up, its a lot more complex than it is in your society.