Man... if you go out every day, this crap is hard to keep up with lol! but worth it!! In the last few days, some of the women on my list have rearranged of course. I Dropped R, she said she was sick, for a few days, and I texted her "good morning" a couple times or "wanna go out?" and she didn't respond. Oh well. I still have 5 women in rotation I'm shooting for dates for. I'm not particularly proud of that, but I expect a few to flake.
C - from work
D - date planned for tomorrow from Tinder
K - match
E - Tinder, went out today
J - Pick up at place called Grimaldis
K gave me her # on match last night. Just some few tips; I've been on a hot streak for some reason. My pictures of course show me doing goofy stuff, a couple of them are with women, and I'm in my uniform in some. A couple are of me in groups of people having fun. I usually don't message women about anything to do with their profiles. I make up crazy stories, or ask about things way out of the ordinary. With K, I opened with "Gah... I just want to run away with you down to XXX and just stay there forever!! You're not crazy though are you??" We talked on the phone today for about and hour or so yesterday. I realized, calling women is another way to stand out from the crowd. I called E on Friday and she complimented me saying she's not used to it. Everyone is usually in text mode.
Friday, I went again to get closure on the second girl I noticed when I was out a few weeks ago with a friend at this restaurant called Grimaldis. Before I went to Grimaldis, I walked around to some local stores in the area, bed bath beyond, old navy, and whole foods but they were all dead... however, I regret passing 2 approachable girls... I was moving fast for no reason, and though I slowed down, they never made eye contact with me. One of them had really tight clothing, hispanic, but as I made rounds I saw her face, and I wasn't that interested. The other one that caught my eye was tall and blonde. Walked by her, staring, I think she saw me but just stared up this menu.
I went to Grimaldis after work, in my military uniform (stand out). This is an easy peacock and I'm comfortable in it (except for the heat). When I went to the place, there was a constant flow of people coming in. I did noticed this really hot couple... big muscular guy about 6'2 with this smoking hot Hispanic looking woman... They both had on tight clothing, and looked like a good couple. It's good to notice "naturals" to see how they do it, so us that have to work a little harder can improve. I am trying to put on some weight cuz I'm a little thin. I think it'd help me with women, somewhat. I notice, a lot of smoking girls are with big men. Like not even muscular, just tall and wide... Saw another pretty hot girl with this tall 6'5" maybe white, not really muscular looking white guy with short hair, maybe military.
After waiting around like a bitch, I said fk it and just went in. There were a ton of people waiting to be seated. J was standing up at the front just waiting to seat people I guess. So I went over to her, smiled at the other 2 girls (they were there yesterday). And said "I didn't come to eat, I came for you. Do you have a moment? Let's go outside." So we did and we chatted for about 5 min. She had a ring on her left ring finger, so I asked her, and she said it was a boy deterrent. I actually can't remember the rest of the conversation, but I should have invested more time getting to know her. I told her she better get back to work, and asked for her # and left.
So... after I got J's number at Grimaldis I was going back to my car, there was one woman in a group of 3 sitting at this bar outside that I noticed staring at me, so I looked back toward her, and the two women with her looked as well. I smiled at them and stared back. I went to my car, got my lip chap, and decided to go back. I should have approached as soon as they were staring at me, but I hesitated. Don't think the result would've been different. When I approached, I asked if I could pull up a chair, and they all looked at me and each other. The white red head said "that's on y'all." The other two didn't even say anything. I think I said "Let me guess, boyfriend (to the white one, pointing), married to the Hispanic that had something on her ring finger?" and then I pointed at the Asian one and couldn't think of anything. The Asian looking one just stared at me, and the Hispanic looking one stuttered a few incoherent things and then said "We're doing a ladies night." Wasn't getting a good vibe, so I just walked away. Didn't really miss out on much after I got to full inspect them.
Analytically speaking, this is probably why the single girl approach is best. Each of the women wants to avoid looking slutty in front of her friends. We know this as trained men.
Went out Sat with a woman I met on Tinder. She has kids, and was married, but divorced. W/e lot of baggage...I really don't care. I realize, what's more valuable is the life experience. Since we exchanged numbers, I've kept texting to a minimum (not just with her but every girl's # I have). Pretty much said good morning, good night, and expressed desire to meet her. She went out Fri night and she sent me a lot of photos of her and her friend's. I told her "You look yummy... mmmm"
and "can't wait to taste" ... I sent her one of me shirtless. Yes, if you are gonna do this, please do Ab work outs and Pushups. Guess she liked what she saw.
I thought she was gonna stand me up... she had just woken when I texted her she said. Yea this woman is bad... she was like 1 hr late to the Starbucks .... but I stayed and waited because she was responding to my texts. She said "I lost my keys" and "I went to the wrong Starbucks" lol... whatever, normal girl nonsense.
Anyway... when she came in, I walked up to her, picked her up and squeezed her, saying "That's for making me wait!" She was in a striped dress top with a pink bottom. Probably about a C cup. I am a big breast guy what can I say.... Anyway, I touched everything. Played with her dress back when she was ordering to see her tatoos, tickled her hip when she was being mean to the staff saying "The service here sucks!" cuz it took 3 min to get her drink... We went and sat outside at a table. I touched her knee, (it had an imprint from something)... Wonder if she was getting fucked right before we met...
touched her arms, grabbed her waist saying her dress is very form fitting. Did everything I could not to just grab her tits... anyway we talked for about an hour while I was fondling her in the open, and she said she had to go meet her mom for breakfast. Ok.... so I pulled "the walk her to her car move," a technique I've begun to really like. I walked her over, grabbed her and turned her around to hug her. I said some things about kissing like "it's been a while since I've kissed someone." She said "I don't kiss and tell" then I said, "So don't tell anyone." She gave me a little more resistance, and I said "It's been so long since I kissed someone."
She puckered her lips after I said that so I went in. Sucked her lips, put my tounge in. She kept saying stuff inbetween like "People are watching us from the drive through." I said "who cares what they think?" then we went back to kissing. WHile I was kissing her sometimes she'd try to break away. I grabbed her and brought her close. I made sure to grope everything. I got to fondle her butt, which she said "OMG you're groping me in public!" But continued to do it. I tried to go for her chest but I think she blocked me. In between kisses I would squeeze her to me. After a good 5 minutes or so, I let her go, holding both her hands as I left I let go.
Trying to arrange a D2 with her.