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Those both sound solid dude, but don't stress too much over what you actually say, it's ridiculous how much weight guys put on the words they say when how they say it and their subcommunication mean so much more. All the so called "rules" gurus advocate for, especially when it comes to what to say and what order to say it in, can be broken. Just make sure whatever you say, you say it with conviction and that you say it with strong eye contact and good, relaxed body language, and you could talk to her about your love for the twilight movie series or how you spent the day rolling around in a meadow with squirrels and she'd still be hanging on your every word.
BINGO. This is it. It does not matter what you say. It really doesn't. If you deliver it without neediness and with the right amount of smoothness, you could literally start talking about lawn fertilizer and if you are into the topic, she will be too. Info exchange - she feels comfortable with you - escalate to the close.