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Telling a girl you want to fuck her
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Author:  joenyftw [ Fri May 07, 2010 1:13 am ]
Post subject:  Telling a girl you want to fuck her

So my current situation is ive been flirting with this girl for a while now we've hooked up a few times and ive built quite a bit of comfort. Basically i want to know if I can just be blunt and tell her (i want to fuck her, next time im hooking up with her) so that she knows what wavelength im on and understands what i want from her.

Not sure if the same rules of the game apply because this situation is quite a bit different to most PUA contingencies. She's 17 and I presume shes a virgin although shes pretty sexual. My mates get drunk with her mates on the regular and when we hook up its mainly just a bit of drunken fun (thats the way i see it anyway).

if it tell her i want to fuck her im hoping that will put the idea of sex in her mind and get her thinking about it.

if i tell her then i can also observe how she reacts and see if there's any interest.

Anyway, all that to ask: is there anything seriously wrong with being straight up with a chick and telling her u want to fuck her? LOL after wrting this post and reflecting on the idea, i think ima do it anyway. But go ahead and give me your opinion please :)

Oh yeah i dunno if its relevant, but this chick is HB9, i dont think it is because @ 17 the rules apply differently,

Author:  ChimeranPanda [ Fri May 07, 2010 2:18 am ]
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I rarely say it. just get to that point by slowly escalating it. It is also said that you should show last-minute resistance by saying "we shouldn't be doing this" but continue doing it, so she really has nothing left to say. Or, you could use GM style lines (google GM Style lines) and say it straight out.

Author:  Little Panda [ Fri May 07, 2010 8:30 pm ]
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Don't verbalize it. Convey it.

Author:  TheOne87NL [ Sat May 08, 2010 8:46 am ]
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if i were you, i would talk about it at first so you plant an idea in her head from you...
since you've build enough comfort already just steer the conversation in the direction of sex and especially the foreplay...
use some stories what you are doing to a girl during the foreplay (Do it very detailed) like :
what i do during foreplay is lay the girl on bed... and when she lays there... i start kissing her in her neck, and.. when she feels my kisses go up and down.. and warm breath in her neck... she feels my hand stroking over her belly... up and down... (go on with that but put something in your story like you have a special tongue/lick technique) and finish with : haha can you imagine me doing that?

note : the pauses are very important.. you have to let her process everything... als the hidden commands are important to emphasise like : 'feel my' and 'can you imagine'

Author:  TheApostle [ Mon May 10, 2010 3:27 am ]
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Here is a reference for the effectiveness of these GM style lines discussed on another forum on this site:


Here are some links to more info. about GM style lines:

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_A ... e/gm.shtml

More examples of GM style lines:

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/03_A ... ines.shtml


Author:  Energy_ [ Mon May 10, 2010 11:07 pm ]
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If the girl is virgin I wouldnt go for the "I wanne fuck you".
You never know when its a virgin.

I can however mention that I one time brought a virgin home.
She said it as we were just about to do it.
And I could see in her eyes it was true. She was scared really scared.
About 22 years old. Said she just wanted to get it over with and there I was ;)
Anyways.. it sucked.

Back to topic.
With the exception of virgins.. I think being straight up is a killer - after you had sex with her. If you're into some dirtytalk that will be you anchor.. SO then when you text her or call her saying You wanne fuck.. she'll think of the good times you had and go for it again.
Could work the first time too. But you should see the signs for that
Not use it as a test.. there are better and more discrete onces!

Author:  loyalknicksfan [ Tue May 11, 2010 6:11 am ]
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when you want to get a girl in bed.. you don't ever use the word sex... you get her alone with you in private... if she wants to have sex, she'll come.. if she doesn't she wont.. sometimes they just want to hook up, but you'll know when you get to her pants..

Author:  TheTruthPUA [ Thu May 13, 2010 8:05 pm ]
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man some of you dudes are crazy... u can't just tell a virgin hey I wanna fuck u... this may work on a women that is 24 and has had multiple partners... I might be an ass for saying this but dude stop being a prick leave the girl there are more girls out their to be trying to fuck up some 17 years old first time... :x

Author:  Ezo [ Thu May 13, 2010 10:59 pm ]
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Man, I dont see the need to tell her. She has probably known way before you realized it yourself. What is wrong with just going for it, you can always tell her afterwards. "Hey I forgot to mention, I wanted to fuck you..."

But no, there is nothing "wrong" with telling her, apart from it being a bit wierd and maybe put too much pressure on her. Girls like to be able to pretend that it "just happened".

Author:  Z-Wrex [ Fri May 14, 2010 4:39 am ]
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Oh boy...ok you cannot tell a girl you want to fuck her. Here's why:

1. When a girl hears "he wants to fuck you," she also hears "he wants to have fuck you and then never speak to you again."

2. You don't know her story. You assume she's a virgin, but she could be a total freak. If you are direct, then you're gonna be direct acting like she's got no clue what to do. Odds are, that'll mess you up.

3. It's incredibly awkward! That's no different from directly telling a girl you like her. It's weird, it puts a lot of pressure on her to respond in a way that's "appropriate," and odds are it'll be messy.

There's way to get your point across without literally telling her that you wanna go wild right then and there. The big problem is that we have no idea what you mean by "hook up." That term's got such a broad meaning nowadays that it messes up legitimate efforts at advice. The hook up can go from making out to sex, and that leaves a huge middle ground. So here's the deal, the closer to sex you've been, the more direct you can be. If the two of you have just been kissing, the most direct approach would just be joking about how you can't deal with getting blueballs one more night. If there's been other sexual shit goin on, you can just push a little further than before, physically, and see what happens.

Author:  Rune [ Fri May 14, 2010 6:22 am ]
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Don't verbalize it. Convey it.

That's all.

Author:  the scamp [ Fri May 14, 2010 9:18 am ]
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How about somthing along the lines of.....

let conversation drift off,

Hold eye contact

Look away

"I really can't look in your eyes for too long, they are kinda mischievous and it makes me think EXTREMELY (emphasis) rude thoughts"

and kinda look a bit bashful.

Inexperienced girls love to know that they have an effect on guys and that they turn them on, but can be put off by being too direct.

This way, it plants the seed in her mind, (she's the naughty one, turning you, the man, on, but you are fighting it for the sake of her) and women's minds are crucial to getting them into the wet pant place.



Author:  jakelambert [ Sun May 30, 2010 11:55 am ]
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Here's the dilemma:

1 we need to be in touch with our desire to be "real men": never apologising for what we want. or else she'll think we're wussies.

2 we must not "need" the girl to have sex: we're perfectly fine if she doesn't want to do it. or else we're pushy or desperate.

the ideal is balancing those two!

Good luck man!

Author:  Millstone [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 4:34 am ]
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Haha Anyone got a problem with her being 17?

Author:  sweaty [ Thu Jun 10, 2010 5:14 am ]
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Haha Anyone got a problem with her being 17?
that's exactly what i was thinking..

maybe its legal wherever you are. any girl under the age of 18 in the US (if you are 18+) is a no no

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