Okay, if you are coming across as 'arrogant' then we need to seriously focus at a few areas of your early game.
#1 You might be using too many negs. Typically, you just need 2-3 for most girls. HB7 and lower you might need just 1 or none and use disinterested body language.
#2 Are you playing too hard to get. Push/Pull is great but you have to let her slowly win. You have to give off some IOIs after being disinterested for a few minutes. You might not be showing interest back quick enough, thus, giving off an arrogant vibe.
#3 You might not be building enough comfort and rapport (about 15 min) before going in for the kiss or # close. When you go from Attraction right into Seduction with no comfort you might very well get the 'player' type 'arrogant' vibe going on.
#4 Touching too much, and too quickly. Do you have a nice progression of Kino or are you getting ahead of yourself?
The problem will very likely be in one of these areas of your game. If you have a wing or someone you trust to watch you in field it would be helpful because they could help identify this. You might be able to do it from your own memory.
Good Luck Tonight, and no matter what just HAVE FUN!
Jon