there's this girl i think is an HB7 at least. but my guy friends always give me a hard time by calling her ugly and asking me what the hell am i thinking. so it's almost making me not like her. should i listen to the guys or proceed?

Reverse social proof in action: your friends don't approve of her, so her "value" begins to drop in your eyes.

I know there is a strong temptation inside of you to kick this girl to the curb and find someone else, because whether he admits it or not, every guy at some point or another wants to be that guy with the super-hot girlfriend everybody wants. I used to be that guy.

But it's all bullshit and ego, man. If you find her sexy and charming, then nothing else should matter. Who's dating her, anyway, you or your friends?

'nuff said

You can't fuck your friends.

Or can you...

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hahahaha thanks for the feedback guys

Answer: You can... but not in the back

Question 2: Who are your friend dating? Are they just digging on you because they are single and misery loves company?

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YOU SISSY! WHY ARE YOU EVEN ASKING THIS?!

"Oh no my friends don't like her, wahhhh!"

How about instead of letting your friends superimpose their reality over yours, maybe you learn to start doing what YOU want and stop relying on the validation of others.

That's called part of being a natural.

In my opinion, you really shouldn't care what your friends think about this girl
if YOU like her it doesnt matter what they think as THEY aren't doing the dating

Remember, this whole alpha thing isn't JUST when you're around chicks. Sometimes you need to AMOG your friends, fuck them. Don't get pissed, just ignore those assholes & change the subject. I've had lame friends before, replace them bastards. Just keep the cool ass ones eventually all your friends will be the shit. I pretty much just chill with my buddies who're naturals and they're more fun than douchebags talking shit.

Your friends are douchebags. Find new friends.

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I f somone called my gf ugly I would loose it bro! lol you kidding me? I dont care if my friends wer joking thats your girl! you must not be the alpha in your group lol

No.

You should not listen to the guys or proceed. Yet! Look inside you and then you answer that question. As I can see it you should ask yourself and be true to yourself. Is she really what you want? Does she fullfill your criterias and your values? Do you like her for who she is on the inside? You don't need to answer these questions now but it's all about you and not about what your friends want or think. It's not your friends who have dated her. It's not they who she has been sharing her ideas and feelings with. It's you two who have shared a common experience! Do you want to continue that sharing or not? It's not about taking her it's all about sharing. So you make the decission out of what you and your standards and values are saying.

FNB that was a deep response


and just to clarify some things, she was never my girlfriend, just a girl i was spending time with. the reason i was having second thoughts about her was because i didnt't really like her in the first place. she was just a "transition girl". i was in a period of uncertainty but now i'm back on track after i re-evaluated my priorities

but anyway, thanks for all the advice

your gonna let your friends control who you can and cant be attracted to or date..? doesnt seem very alpha to me bro