There's a lot of intellectual dishonesty posted on this forum.
We often hear Hallmark card platitude sentimentality, like "It's the place it comes from" or "I don't care what a girl thinks",
yet it's bullshit.
The truth is, we do care what a woman thinks, at least in terms of our initial interaction. We want to succeed, to accomplish our goals ,and we're putting energy into the approach, and the conversation.
If you're thinking of a joke to tell a girl, you DO care what she thinks, because you're trying to impress her. Let's be intellectually honest on that front.
"Not caring what a woman thinks" applies, IMHO, to socially invaluable women, or women we've had failed relationships with, or women we're not attracted to. Not to very attractive women we want to, and do approach. This entire forum is geared for making men more successful for women. We spend an awful lot of time on self-improvement, not only for ourselves, but to change how women think and feel about us.
I can say i genuinely dont care what a woman thinks during an initial interaction. My goal when meeting a woman is usually not "I have to bang her" its just lets see where this goes. If I am sold on banging a woman for the sake of it, I'd think to myself just get a pro. Whats the point really? The validation? Bragging rights? I ask myself, what can I get from just banging this woman because of her appearance?
Thats just me, I dont say jokes to impress, in fact many times I like really corny things that only I or my friends would find funny, and I say it because it amuses ME. I put on youtube rap battle videos for chicks that they cant understand, I play a scene from a movie I think is awesome that I know she wouldnt care about. Hot or not, bang her or not, its no big deal imo. Banging isnt really my goal; and tbh it probably happens easily because I dont care at this point...but my goal is to just have a good time. Sex is great, but its not really my GOAL most of the time.