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Yep, and I agree with you, that is why I didnt take her to dinner on the first meet up.. and a hike is not cliche.. I'm not a romantic by any means lol..
I'm not trying to be a dick, I just don't want to waste your time, or mine. So I get to the point.
I live in a mountain town where all the girls love hiking. Yet I would never take one on a hike for the first few weeks. Why?
Because daylight, hiking, and outdoor stuff is for pals, or bf/gf. It's the same thing as a lunch date. And was it on a weekday? Even worse.
Secondly, my job as a dominant, sexual male is to establish a great physical connection, to be congruent with my desires. It's pure science. You should be spending most of your time early on in the bedroom, releasing her oxytocin. Then ask if she wants to go for a hike.
You win 9's and 10's over by being a great lover, not a tour guide, or a restaurant enthusiast.
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Yes it does matter how hot she is to me, because if she wasn't hot I would have already closed as I have before dozens of times.. I haven't always gotten every woman that I wanted, but I have gotten EVERY woman that has wanted me (100% close rate). Because I'm not intrigued by them and it makes them want to qualify themselves to me.. then its easy from there, all down hill.. Yep I did get blown off.. but thats not the end of it, regardless of your negative outlook.
What happened on the first date?