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PostPosted: Thu Jun 08, 2017 10:27 am 
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So tomorrow I'm going on a 2nd date with a solid HB9, and no, I'm not exaggerating one bit about the #. So first date was great, true chemistry, good vibes, genuine interest blah blah...

But this leaves me scratching my head thinking- Why the hell is this stunning woman single, let alone on a dating site (tinder), and on top of it all, meeting me lol.. Not that I am ugly or anything (she did swipe right afterall :)). But this is the type of girl that looks like she would date guys with income of $250k plus, and I am nowhere near that..

So this leads me to these questions:

1 Does she have skeletons in her closet?
2. Is she only in to rich guys who will support her? (which I'm not)
3. Does she have some serious issue with her that keeps her single.

What could it possibly be.


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But this leaves me scratching my head thinking - Why the hell is this stunning woman single, let alone on a dating site (tinder), and on top of it all, meeting me lol.. Not that I am ugly or anything (she did swipe right afterall :)). But this is the type of girl that looks like she would date guys with income of $250k plus, and I am nowhere near that..
It's not entirely uncommon for highly attractive women to be single. Most of the guys that will be hitting on them are going to fall in the "aggressive idiot with fake rolex" demographic.
Beautiful women can be intimidating to approach for otherwise normal guys, so if she has any standards being single isn't a huge surprise. Having a lot of options isn't of much use if the options suck or aren't the options you want.

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So this leads me to these questions:

1 Does she have skeletons in her closet?
2. Is she only in to rich guys who will support her? (which I'm not)
3. Does she have some serious issue with her that keeps her single.

What could it possibly be.
1. Find out for yourself.
2. Find our for yourself.
3. Find out for yourself.

Stop overthink. If I went out with a stunningly beautiful woman that were otherwise dumb as a brick, she wouldn't get a second date , let alone the girlfriend title.
Point is, beauty isn't everything when you're asking why someone is single.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 08, 2017 3:25 pm 
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Girls of that type of sexual architecture are constantly, blatantly, unrealistically objectified.
Don't get me wrong they could tone it down some, but they also enjoy the attention. It puts them in a caliber few enjoy.

That, like everything else, comes at a price. There is so much thirsty thrown at them, they have a very difficult time getting laid.

With any type of normalcy anyway.

Most of the time, all you need to do is be genuine. Appreciate and listen to what SHE has to say. Complement her on her choices, her intelligence, her abilities. Not her ass and tits.

Don't 'baby' her. Go ahead and disagree here and there. I don't know how many times I've heard one of these girls talk and they just sound so stupid because nobody tells them when they are fucking WRONG.

The other thing they deal with daily is, disdain. Pure evil contempt from other women. Even to the point of rudeness.

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More than likely there is something there that will be a deal breaker either for you or for her, or both. The key is to just bang the girl quickly before that comes to the surface so you can add her to your scorecard and move on. Sad to say, but its true.

A lot of the younger hotties don't fully understand yet that their looks should get them men with money, so they'll slum with broke guys as long as they are decent looking and have good game. Sometimes they'll be single moms, or alcoholics, or just plain crazy. Again, just escalate and seal the deal and don't worry about the skeletons until you have smashed.

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More than likely there is something there that will be a deal breaker either for you or for her, or both.
Huh?
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The key is to just bang the girl quickly before that comes to the surface so you can add her to your scorecard and move on.
Huh?
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A lot of the younger hotties don't fully understand yet that their looks should get them men with money, so they'll slum with broke guys as long as they are decent looking and have good game. Sometimes they'll be single moms, or alcoholics, or just plain crazy. Again, just escalate and seal the deal and don't worry about the skeletons until you have smashed.
You have a twisted look at things.

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More than likely there is something there that will be a deal breaker either for you or for her, or both. The key is to just bang the girl quickly before that comes to the surface so you can add her to your scorecard and move on. Sad to say, but its true.

A lot of the younger hotties don't fully understand yet that their looks should get them men with money, so they'll slum with broke guys as long as they are decent looking and have good game. Sometimes they'll be single moms, or alcoholics, or just plain crazy. Again, just escalate and seal the deal and don't worry about the skeletons until you have smashed.
I think you are right! We shall see.. I can tell you though, the assumptions you have made so far are not correct in this case- which leads me to believe this one is different. she is NOT "younger" she is 32.... No kids.. says she doesn't drink.. Well that just leaves 1 other scenario. SHE'S NUTS. Will report back lol


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You're going to fuck this up.

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You're going to fuck this up.
I like your optimism... I'm not ruling that out. well she swiped right and we met up once already... obviously she liked something.


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I'm saying you're going to fuck this up because puaninja's perspective is, as Jack pointed out, twisted and flawed. Yet you agree with it.

You had a successful interaction with a beautiful woman and your first thought is "what the hell is wrong with her"?
Ironic you should bring optimism up.

Don't you see the problem with that mindset?

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I'm saying you're going to fuck this up because puaninja's perspective is, as Jack pointed out, twisted and flawed. Yet you agree with it.

You had a successful interaction with a beautiful woman and your first thought is "what the hell is wrong with her"?
Ironic you should bring optimism up.

Don't you see the problem with that mindset?
***UPDATE***

RC, I hear you mate, but unfortunately it didn't get to that point yesterday. We agreed to meet yesterday (Called her wednesday, confirmed the time to meet) then I called her 2 hours before our meet-up yesterday.. NO ANSWER..then I immediately text her: "whats up send me your address" ... NO REPLY!! so today, its been 24 hours, still no reply... and to make it worse, I just checked out her FB, and she posted a pic on her wall.. Not sure what I did to scare her off.. again, we had good chemistry after our first meet up, she initiated to add her on facebook.. so I don't know what to do at this point.... thinking to delete her from FB to get her attention... or I can wait a few days to reach out one last time? What do you think RC?


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I'm saying you're going to fuck this up because puaninja's perspective is, as Jack pointed out, twisted and flawed. Yet you agree with it.

You had a successful interaction with a beautiful woman and your first thought is "what the hell is wrong with her"?
Ironic you should bring optimism up.

Don't you see the problem with that mindset?
***UPDATE***

RC, I hear you mate, but unfortunately it didn't get to that point yesterday. We agreed to meet yesterday (Called her wednesday, confirmed the time to meet) then I called her 2 hours before our meet-up yesterday.. NO ANSWER..then I immediately text her: "whats up send me your address" ... NO REPLY!! so today, its been 24 hours, still no reply... and to make it worse, I just checked out her FB, and she posted a pic on her wall.. Not sure what I did to scare her off.. again, we had good chemistry after our first meet up, she initiated to add her on facebook.. so I don't know what to do at this point.... thinking to delete her from FB to get her attention... or I can wait a few days to reach out one last time? What do you think RC?
Maybe someone else has got her attention, and you have been shelved. Time to move on I think.


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Maybe someone else has got her attention, and you have been shelved. Time to move on I think.[/quote]

should I delete her off my FB?? u think that will get her attention


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Maybe someone else has got her attention, and you have been shelved. Time to move on I think.
should I delete her off my FB?? u think that will get her attention[/quote]

Just ignore her and don't message her or like any posts etc until she messages you. No need to delete her from fb. Need to show there is nothing wrong and carry on meeting other women. She may see you having fun through fb photos with other women and then may get back in touch. If she doesn't it's no big deal.


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Maybe someone else has got her attention, and you have been shelved. Time to move on I think.

Just ignore her and don't message her or like any posts etc until she messages you. No need to delete her from fb. Need to show there is nothing wrong and carry on meeting other women. She may see you having fun through fb photos with other women and then may get back in touch. If she doesn't it's no big deal.
Oh trust me she will be seeing me having fun with other girls.. thats an understatement. She told me that she has a masters degree in Psychology... and I think she just might be applying her malicious skills on me.. but she doesn't know I have a few skills of my own :))


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OP, you posted before how you had a great conversation with a receptionist in a different post and then she ignored you once you tried contacting her. Now you're posting about how you had a tinder date but can't get a second date. Both times you tend to believe that it's something wrong with the girl's behavior. Don't you think that it's more likely that it's something that you're doing? Maybe it's something in your personality that is pushing them away? I don't know you so I could be wrong about this, but you write as if you are kind of arrogant with your communication with women. Even this statement comes off as arrogant
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Oh trust me she will be seeing me having fun with other girls.. thats an understatement. She told me that she has a masters degree in Psychology... and I think she just might be applying her malicious skills on me.. but she doesn't know I have a few skills of my own )
It's great to be confident with women, but to be arrogantly confident is going to always be a turn off unless your mansion and Bentley backs you up.

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