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PostPosted: Tue Jun 06, 2017 4:44 pm 
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Hey fellas,

As much fun as it is to 'play' around, the regret i get to feel after a failed night is annoying..

Anyways, the story goes as follows. Got an invite with a friend to an event with lots of HB8-9s which was quite lucky. The deal was that we get dinner for a couple of hours and then head over to the after-party at a local club in London.

As lucky the night goes on, a really fit HB8 sits next to me at the table. I start talking, teasing, negging slightly, we got a great rhythm going on. After 30' another 2 fit ones sit on the same table so i think that's the great way to create some extra value, so i start socialising with them a bit, always keeping the one next to me in 'check'. I decide to take a first 'test' so i invite the one next to me to join me for some fresh air outside, and she accepts without second thought. We keep a great talk going on with slight flirting etc..at this point i am the top of the game, thinking this will end well.

Back to the table, and time to leave for the after-party, girl asks me to go with them. I think 'no rush', i ve set the groundwork, so i play it cool and tell her i ll wait for my friend and will catch you later, which i think annoyed her a bit. Anyway, we arrive at the club, and luck runs out :)

She goes to a 'restricted' area so we cant meet each other for a while. During that time she'd already met a few guys, and if you are familiar with the London club scene, things are quite aggressive, guys all over her, dancing, grabbing etc..etc..so long story short, she comes out at a point and gets me into that area with her, but the whole previous 'rapport' was out of the window, guys all around, i get side-tracked, game over. good to mention here i have the syndrome of the handsome guy with low-confidence, which is why i hate this nasty 'club scene'

What's your take on that, ie what would you have done to turn this around? was also considering if not asking for a number before the club (and say i ve not decided if coming yet etc..) was a bad move..

Keep it up guys!

p.s. the other 2 fit girls on our table turned out to be the dancers on the after-party club!! when i saw that started thinking how it would've gone if i'd invested in those two more than just 'using' them for value..overthinking again :lol:


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 06, 2017 5:08 pm 
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I think 'no rush', i ve set the groundwork, so i play it cool and tell her i ll wait for my friend and will catch you later,
She was in the moment, and you decided to let the moment go...

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 06, 2017 11:02 pm 
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i guess a lesson to learn from trying to play it too cool (although i wanted her there and then) is that it might turn the other way around pretty quickly; especially when talking about HB8-9s...still not found a good balance with it


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PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2017 12:02 am 
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After 30' another 2 fit ones sit on the same table so i think that's the great way to create some extra value
Nope, it's try-hard.


You don't need to "create" value.

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so i start socialising with them a bit, always keeping the one next to me in 'check'. I decide to take a first 'test' so i invite the one next to me to join me for some fresh air outside, and she accepts without second thought. We keep a great talk going on with slight flirting etc..at this point i am the top of the game, thinking this will end well.


You: "Let's get out of here and party at my place."

When you get a woman who's interested in you outside, the next, logical step is your place or a kiss. Your place is an organic, adult next step from this. Don't fear it, or fear offending the girl. Socially valuable women want a man who leads.

That's where you lost her.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2017 12:24 pm 
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thanks for reading through and feedback. Good points to keep for improvement

i thought it was pre-mature to go for kiss so early, even if she willingly agreed to come out with me. perhaps out of 'fear' of insulting her or putting her on a tough spot as you say...thinking back i kind of regret not trying it


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 09, 2017 12:59 am 
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Night game is much more in the moment and hands on. You have to escalated right there on the spot, as another guy will do it for you in a moments notice.

All you guys that have this sort of problem fail because you never make that physical connection and all you have is this loose vibey thing that comes and goes. Get the girl in your arms. Make shit happen!

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 09, 2017 11:44 am 
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Yeah, i agree..in a sense i m glad this happened..although regret it, at least its a lesson learned.


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Unless I'm walking into to a play with a girl, I won't ever follow them or expect to be hanging with them in the next venue. I'll just number close, and make a point to call them later on in the week.

Everything was decent here though, you just didn't close. Once it was time to "go" you should've closed. That was your only mistake.

This is a small thing to a giant though man. You won't remember this in a week, and will have a couple new prospects to boot.

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