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Thank you so far.
I definitely wont go with the weak thing and explain or apologize. I DO want to double down.
But I'm not too sure about the "get naked part" and if I can use that with her.
Other ideas that arent that extreme but still direct and show what is going on?
When a girl really wants you, she won't care if you're direct or say "let's get naked".
A couple weeks back I had a filthy, ridiculous threesome. My gf and her friend were at my place, and I took a few photos and asked them to kiss, and that "my gf needs to fuck a girl." I used those exact words.
They denied me.
However, I didn't react.
My gf told her friend, "lol, he can be obnoxious sometimes." I then heard my gf's friend tell her "yeah, but I find it adorable."
An hour later they're in my bed pulling each other's hair.
Do not be afraid to be honest with women. It actually turns them on because you;re leading, and not hiding your desires behind nice guy bullshit.
The truth is, from what you've told me, is that you're going nowhere fast with this girl. You're being a pussy, to put it bluntly. And she's playing you because you're being so nice. many 9's and 10's will play with men like cats to chipmunks if they sense weakness.
direct, charming and shocking honesty is how you completely disarm that.