1 hour before she say she has insane headaches and has to cancel.
You: Cool, I'm good either way.
Here is where I messed up:
instead of calling her I texted back...went like this
me: is this really the reason?
her: yes, what else?
holy fuck your response is needy. At least ACT like you have options, lol.
me: that's just always the lamest excuse, but no judging here
What a needy, emotional reply on your part. Embarrassing.
her: why should I do that? I agreed to today, I am starting to...no nevermind, thumbs up
me: that's why i hate texting...and I didn'T mean it the way u think
LOL! holy shit, this is like watching a newborn colt try and run around a hazard course.
called her, she didn't pick up and that's that...
hahha, I wouldn't pick up either.
How long to wait until I do...what exactly?
Do nothing. Meet other women. Sometimes no contact can pique a girl's interest again. you have to be patient with women. and when I say that, (and when other coaches say it) I don't think most men understand what "patient" really means. It can be weeks, or MONTHS.
Every interaction, every new contact is like planting a seed. Some will sprout and grow in a day or two. Others may take a year. always be cultivating your garden of abundance unless you're exclusive with a girl.