ME: You got plans friday at like 1900?
Her: Yeah lol I have my holiday party for work
Me: Aw ok same I was gonna see if you were trying to go with me and turn up haha
Her: I think I'm going to (club) after though
Me: Ew you like (club)? Its ratchet af but if I'm drunk enough I'll check it out lol
She didnt respond but 2 days later i sent this
Me: Hey if you ain't got plans Thursday let's get on something
and she hasnt responded even though its been 3 days and shes been on.
WTF did i do wrong
Unless you've already kissed or had other physical interaction with the girl, FB is usually the kiss of death.
And dude, she told you she was going to the club later, giving you a sweet opening. Instead you said "ew, you like?". That's not a phrase a man uses, but rather a little boy. Also, the "I'll check it out if I'm drunk enough" line makes you look like a drunk. Showing up drunk on first meets is instant friend-zone for most women and shows you don't take care of yourself.
It's no surprise she ejected after that line. You creeped her out.
Her: I think I''m going to the club after, though.
You: Cool, which one? I'm down to have some fun.
Keep things light and fun. Go with the flow, not a debbie downer who questions her right away. I immediately dump women who nag me prior to first meet/on first meet, and women do the same to men.