I am new on this forum. I have a good tinder profile and match with quite a few people. About 20-30% initiate the messaging. I have good initial game and appear nice enough so if i chat for a decent time the girls usually shoot me across their number before i ask. My issue is transitioning to SPAM and not being able to use any attraction techniques.
Im chatting with this nice girl at the moment. Educated to same level as me, work in the same industry. Cat person. Very witty (so far more so than me), fun and genuine. She initiated the conversation on tinder, then sent me her number. I gave it a couple of days and text back. She's been chatty but so far it has been mainly safe non sexual banter. Last night she sent me a selfie of herself and her cat. I missed the opportunity to compliment her but we chatted for some time after that even though she was with a friend.
I was going to send her something along the lines of this today but wanted some advice from you guys as to whether it is a wise/good idea to do so, as i am not sure how she would receive it.
"Hey good looking
hows it going today? Hope you’ve not been encumbered with too much of a hangover? So, I was thinking about that big lovely smile earlier. Is it always so delightful or only when you’re giving AC [the cat] a massive B.I.G. hug?!
I'd appreciate the advice! Thanks.