Yea i totally agree but i revised my interaction and i think i made her jealous and ever since then she stopped letting me escalate....but its also happened before with another girl but i thoughr girls lile that sort of thing i thought she would be fighting for my attention if i make her jealous but instead she put up a barrier/stop letting me escalate entirly and she hugs my friends in front of me and trys to make me jealous... i interpreted this as she wanted my attention but then... i talked to her a couple of times and the she told me that 'I DONT GET TO TALK TO HER WHENEVER I FEEL LIKE IT' and then she walked off ever since then i havent talked to her its been like a week..... what do i do bro?
Even though you've revised the statement, I'm still not sure if you get what I'm trying to say to you. If you have a girl that is attracted to you, what is the need for creating rapport, qualification, and now jealousy? You're cockblocking yourself with these tactics. The whole goal is attraction so that YOU can escalate.
I get the feeling that you are one of the guys that feel entitled but not confident. You protect your ego by trying to get girls to jump through hoops just so you can confirm that they are attracted to you. That's girl repellant.