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So what sort of things do you say after opening a girl in a bar that aren't 'interview questions'?
I very rarely open a girl by asking a question. I'll normally make a few comments that get the conversation started. Most of the time it'll be something about where I'm at or what I'm doing but it's mainly about what I think. Sometimes I'll say something off the wall just to see how she'll react (but that's just for bars and clubs). I think opening by asking questions is actually kind of boring. For me, talking to women like I already know them gets better results. The first statement may throw them a little bit and they may respond awkwardly but they fall in line after a few moments and making it a real conversation. Once that happens then you can start asking questions about their statements.
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You mean basically opening direct and telling her she's hot? (or do you mean, not necessarily at the open, but just the fact that once you've told her you like her you think everything else after that becomes easier conversation wise?)
I never tell a girl that she's hot in a direct way. I'll normally infer it. "Pretty girls don't have that problem", "You've turned this into a good day", etc. Telling a hot girl that she's hot isn't new information for her. It's the flirtation that's going to let her know that you're attracted to her.