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I'd personally dump her. Her having a guy stay over for dinner while you're away is the biggest red flag going IMO. Fuck being the cool guy in this instance, she's disrespecting you and your relationship. You're being AFC by NOT reacting to this IMO.
Who is this guy anyway? Have you met him? Has she told you about him before?
We've never actually had the discussion about being exclusive, so it's not as cut and dry
as that but we are really close and we're both the type where a label doesn't really change
anything, so I strongly believe this would have happened even if we were together 'officially'.
I've never met him. I've heard about him once (forgot to put in original post) and she described him
as a guy who sleeps around a lot, which obviously adds fuel to the fire.